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Terrorism that’s Personal.

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I came across this article few weeks ago and I felt the urge to share.
It is called “Terrorism that’s Personal” by Nicholas D.Kristof and was published in late 2008.

Everyone would probably see terrorism as a political act but who would have imagined
that it is also something affecting many women in Pakistan?

“But sometimes it’s very personal.
It wasn’t a government or a guerrilla insurgency that threw acid on this woman’s face in Pakistan.
It was a young man whom she had rejected for marriage.

As the United States ponders what to do in Afghanistan — and for that matter, in Pakistan —
it is wise to understand both the political and the personal,
that the very ignorance and illiteracy and misogyny that create the climate for these acid attacks can
and does bleed over into the political realm.

Nicholas Kristof, the New York Times op-ed columnist who travelled to Pakistan last year
to write about acid attacks, put it this way in an essay at the time –

“I’ve been investigating such acid attacks, which are commonly used to terrorize and subjugate women
and girls in a swath of Asia from Afghanistan through Cambodia (men are almost never attacked with acid).
Because women usually don’t matter in this part of the world,
their attackers are rarely prosecuted and acid sales are usually not controlled.
It’s a kind of terrorism that becomes accepted as part of the background noise in the region.

Bangladesh has imposed controls on acid sales to curb such attacks,
but otherwise it is fairly easy in Asia to walk into a shop and buy sulfuric
or hydrochloric acid suitable for destroying a human face.
Acid attacks and wife burnings are common in parts of Asia because the victims are
the most voiceless in these societies: They are poor and female.
The first step is simply for the world to take note, to give voice to these women.”

Since 1994, a Pakistani activist who founded the Progressive Women’s Association (www.pwaisbd.org) to help such women “has documented 7,800 cases of women who were deliberately burned, scalded or subjected to acid attacks,
just in the Islamabad area. In only 2 percent of those cases was anyone convicted.”

Shameem Akhter, 18, poses for a photograph at her home in Jhang, Pakistan, Wednesday, July 10, 2008. Shameem was raped by three boys who then threw acid on her three years ago. Shameem has undergone plastic surgery 10 times to try to recover from her scars.

Najaf Sultana, 16, poses for a photograph at her home in Lahore, Pakistan on Wednesday, July 9, 2008. At the age of five Najaf was burned by her father while she was sleeping, apparently because he didn't want to have another girl in the family. As a result of the burning Najaf became blind and after being abandoned by both her parents she now lives with relatives. She has undergone plastic surgery around 15 times to try to recover from her scars.

Shehnaz Usman, 36, poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Sunday, Oct. 26, 2008. Shehnaz was burned with acid by a relative due to a familial dispute five years ago. Shehnaz has undergone plastic surgery 10 times to try to recover from her scars.

Shahnaz Bibi, 35, poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Sunday, Oct. 26, 2008. Ten years ago Shahnaz was burned with acid by a relative due to a familial dispute. She has never undergone plastic surgery.

Kanwal Kayum, 26, adjusts her veil as she poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Sunday, Oct. 26, 2008. Kanwal was burned with acid one year ago by a boy whom she rejected for marriage. She has never undergone plastic surgery.

Munira Asef, 23, poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Sunday, Oct. 26, 2008. Munira was burned with acid five years ago by a boy whom she rejected for marriage. She has undergone plastic surgery 7 times to try to recover from her scars.

Bushra Shari, 39, adjusts her veil as she poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Friday, July. 11, 2008. Bushra was burned with acid thrown by her husband five years ago because she was trying to divorce him. She has undergone plastic surgery 25 times to try to recover from her scars.

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Memuna Khan, 21, poses for a photograph in Karachi, Pakistan, Friday, Dec. 19, 2008. Menuna was burned by a group of boys who threw acid on her to settle a dispute between their family and Menuna's. She has undergone plastic surgery 21 times to try to recover from her scars.

Zainab Bibi, 17, adjusts her veil as she poses for a photograph in Islamabad, Pakistan, Wednesday, Dec. 24, 2008. Zainab was burned on her face with acid thrown by a boy whom she rejected for marriage five years ago. She has undergone plastic surgery several times to try to recover from her scars.

Naila Farhat, 19, poses for a photograph in Islamabad, Pakistan, Wednesday, Dec. 24, 2008. Naila was burned on her face with acid thrown by a boy whom she rejected for marriage five years ago. She has undergone plastic surgery several times to try to recover from her scars.

Saira Liaqat, 26, poses for the camera as she holds a portrait of herself before being burned, at her home in Lahore, Pakistan, Wednesday, July 9, 2008. When she was fifteen, Saira was married to a relative who would later attack her with acid after insistently demanding her to live with him, although the families had agreed she wouldn't join him until she finished school. Saira has undergone plastic surgery 9 times to try to recover from her scars.

I’m totally speechless.

Why are such barbaric actions still taking place in our society?

Written by SIXPEGS

November 29, 2009 at 9:26 pm

Posted in Reflections

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  1. omg this is so heartbreaking. :(

    ser

    November 29, 2009 at 10:10 pm

    • yes it really is, serene. :(

      sixpegs

      November 29, 2009 at 11:56 pm

  2. feel fortunate to be in Singapore. imagine the humiliation and pain they went through. fuck the men who did that, feel like pouring acid at their dicks!!!

    debraaa

    November 29, 2009 at 10:11 pm

    • i showed my mother the pictures and that’s exactly what she said too!
      she said, “go buy acid and pour back on his face lah! nothing to lose already!”

      sixpegs

      November 29, 2009 at 11:55 pm

  3. I’ve read about this somewhere before. My heart goes out to those women out there. I’ve even read of those which the woman was raped, is pregnant with the child of the rapist and instead of the rapist going to jail, SHE has to go to jail!

    Emily

    November 29, 2009 at 10:18 pm

    • wtf man?!

      sixpegs

      November 29, 2009 at 11:54 pm

    • absolutely true, unless the woman decided to fight back, hard.

      Try reading In the Name of Honor where a woman decided to fight back after being gang raped over a family dispute.

      janis

      January 29, 2010 at 4:57 pm

  4. Thank you for this entry. I think sometimes we just need constant reminders to reiterate the repercussions of terrorism in our society.

    pseudonymiss

    November 29, 2009 at 10:20 pm

  5. It is hard to read this, and yet somehow every picture just goes on to show more courage, and more injustice that are still very much existing in our times.

    It is in the same country that the women get raped without being heard because they try to ignore it, and in their defence, gahment says it is not as bad in some other countries when women get blamed for rape.

    One woman tried to stand up for herself, but she got harassed by her own gahment – Mukhtar Mai, which shows how little respect and rights are given to women in some parts of the world out there.

    It’s sad. Very sad.

    Scarlett T

    November 29, 2009 at 10:44 pm

    • hey there dear, didn’t really understand the back part with the woman who tried to stand up against the government.
      but whatever it is, these women are really brave to stand before the camera to use their scars to tell their story.
      it’s shocking but yet it really did its part to let us in a little on how ugly our society really is.

      sixpegs

      November 29, 2009 at 11:54 pm

  6. oh my gosh pegs! this entry made me tear. It’s really saddening! But thanks for sharing. I’m sure it sheds light to the hidden truths in our modern society.

    Sarah

    November 29, 2009 at 11:10 pm

    • :) you’re welcome.
      i’m totally appalled when i first saw this article as well.
      it’s really depressing to know that these things are still going on today.

      sixpegs

      November 29, 2009 at 11:46 pm

  7. hey peggy,
    thanks for blogging something so moving and impactful, i think i might never get to know of such disgusting acts if i wasn’t a reader of your blog. i think we’re really very blessed, aren’t we?

    lavenderlullaby

    November 29, 2009 at 11:16 pm

    • we really are very very fortunate.

      sixpegs

      November 29, 2009 at 11:45 pm

  8. omg I just read this entry and it totally left me speechless. How can such atrocities exist in a world that is supposedly civilized and educated? These bastards ought to be persecuted.

    mel

    November 30, 2009 at 1:47 am

  9. Mukhtar Mai suffered gang rape as a form of honourable revenge, she is a Pakistani, and instead of committing suicide, which was what was expected of her, she reported it and brought the case into attention.

    It gained international attention, but her own country’s gahment had shown “help” by giving some form of compensation due to international pressure, but at the same time, she got harassed for her outspokenness, which is not expected out of female in their country.

    She is the epitome of bravery, and yet reflects the ugliness of it all of how women are treated. You can wiki her name to find out more :)

    Scarlett T

    November 30, 2009 at 3:54 am

    • wahhh… okokok.

      sixpegs

      November 30, 2009 at 4:24 am

  10. … Because it’s a completely different society. They don’t embrace the same culture, same values….

    Thank you for sharing this. If you don’t mind, I would like to share it on my blog too. Sigh.

    BObo

    November 30, 2009 at 6:39 am

  11. Our society?! You mean Pakistan! Not Singapore, and never Singapore, I hope. This is terrible. Good you’re sharing. Let the whole world know what shitheads there are in that country.

    Angel

    November 30, 2009 at 2:59 pm

    • Yeah it’s not in Singapore but still, in this modern day, it’s still sad to know that such ugly things are still gg on in our society, not just in our country.

      sixpegs

      November 30, 2009 at 7:58 pm

  12. […] Got this link from Peggy’s Blog and read her post titled: Terrorism thats personal. […]

    Missy Lynn

    November 30, 2009 at 3:56 pm

  13. ouch, my heart just broke. there is quite frequent in pakistan i think. there are also honour killings :( thanks peggy, you just reminded me that i’m a very fortunate girl.

    on a sidenote, how come they got access to acid all the time ah? so weird one

    jjjayne

    November 30, 2009 at 7:47 pm

    • yah lor jayne, very horrible right?
      really feel sad but also fortunate that we’re living in singapore.

      sixpegs

      November 30, 2009 at 7:59 pm

  14. ohmy. my heart goes out to all these women there.

    i guess the society there still believes in a men-up-women-bottom rule. i once watched a documentary about them and there is this case about a woman who got caught talking to a male neighbour. her husband got pissed, hung her upside down and cut off her tongue so that she can never speak again. while suffering, she is pregnant! wtf!

    men are real selfish when they can still go round flirting, women cant even talk to people of the opposite sex.

    fangyi

    December 1, 2009 at 1:02 am

  15. o god.. this is so heart breaking man!…What on earth are the ppl thinking when they splash the acid on the gal’s face?

    lester

    December 2, 2009 at 4:59 pm

  16. You should credit and link to the photographer. Amazing project. Powerful post.

    jkristal

    December 5, 2009 at 5:46 am

  17. the girl who showed her pic before her attack was so pretty! :(

    mich

    December 11, 2009 at 1:33 pm

    • yeah that was what i thought too. so poor thing!

      sixpegs

      December 11, 2009 at 4:10 pm

  18. This is nothing but a reflection of the savagery and how primitive still lots of men are in that society ( Pakistan and other countries) … we are talking about men who hardly use their brains, they all act upon rage, jelousy, selfishness, and some other primitive emotions, poor men who are raw and unable to behave like social beings. Just like dealing with animals, you talk to them, they have no clue what you are saying, they are what we call in my country, social dregs ( social shit) men who are usually iliterate, lazy, poor and unable to improve – ´cause they´re good for nothing- , dirty and smelly due to their apathy at life, they harly know they are alive and have a mission in life. Mediocres.

    There is a phenomenon that happens in SOME women when they grow older in the family… I mean when they get some control over the kids and the husband himself – when the husband is just so useless and sick, tired of a useless and clueless life- …. they are so bitter that pass on to the kids the same primitive behavior they´ve been victims of and may see suitable that their sons claim their “rights” over a girl of their preference this way we see here. Ive met 4 women ( older mothers) who even let a hint of accusation on the girl … ( SHTTTTTTT!!!) … comments like: ” well… if she had OBBEYED, that wouldnt have happened to her” ( am I in the wrong planet???) .

    The whole system in these families are screwed up all the way… screwed up brains.

    Government?? the same dregs as those who do things like this against another human being… Polititians who are just good for nothing, unable to guarantee well being to all.. they must be scratching their balls all day. You can´t deny what is so obvious… no way they can say they´re good at their jobs… things prove themselves, governors prove themselves through facts like this. Mediocres.

    pentagon

    February 15, 2010 at 2:53 pm


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