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My boyfriend’s going away…

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My boyfriend is leaving.
He is going to be away for half a year, in the far far India.
I’m getting mixed emotions about the news.
But seems like, things will get better for his career after this break.
As much as I want to keep him by my side,
I thought I should not be selfish.
When I look down at my feet next time,
there will only be one pair of feet.
(T__T)He is really sweet though.
He told me that he can save up a lot of money during his stay there.
His colleagues tell him there is only one emporium and one 7-11 in that area.


And by the end of six months,
there will be a huge jump in his savings.
And with some other investments, he will be able to marry me soon!

But well, he is leaving next month.
It is really so soon!
And seeing that I’m so upset because of this and my exams,
he offered to buy me a big pressie!
Now, I’m still pondering about what I should get!

But I’m still worried about he leaving me!
The last time when he left for Europe for 3 weeks, I almost died here.

I just hope everything will be different this time round!



Written by SIXPEGS

April 18, 2008 at 9:18 pm

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  1. it’d be a really good test and learning process for the relationship, but miumiu and u look so good and so happy together! surviving the half year will mean you can survive like your entire lifetime with him! it’s hard but you should be able to get thru’!

    i know my bf wanna go on an exchange program next year too! which also means almost half a year away! i think i can learn things from you then. (:


    April 18, 2008 at 9:32 pm

  2. dun be sad.
    think of him asking u to marry when he is back in 6mths time.

    stay happy peg =)

    really love ur blog.


    April 18, 2008 at 9:34 pm

  3. think on the bright side, absence makes the heart grow fonder.


    April 18, 2008 at 9:42 pm

  4. I’ll be your substitute pair of feet!
    I know how you’re feeling right now because the other time my bf went away for 1 mth, he couldn’t call me until the last few days b4 he came back and it is so scary.

    Do u have webcam? Probably, you should ask him to get webcam then both of u can webcam each other!


    April 18, 2008 at 10:03 pm

  5. first time posting here. love reading your blog!

    hm. 6months (!!) is really long and it’s definitely not going to be easy for you, and also for him too!

    Few yrs back i heard stories about working in india, like frequent blackouts and there might not even have internet access! Hope situation is better now.

    So fret not! you still have your lovely friends here to accompany you thru the days till he’s back. Start looking forward to the day and do countdown! :D


    April 18, 2008 at 11:14 pm

  6. Ah Peggy! I can so so so understand how you feel… 3 weeks and you feel like dying… what’s 6 months gonna be? But think about it, it will be a test on the relationship, and I’m sure you two will emerge much stronger after that :) And well, I’m not surprised if a marriage pursues.. cos that’s when both of you know you cant live without each other! :P Till then, take more photos, make it your new wallpaper at home! Heh. :P


    April 18, 2008 at 11:47 pm

  7. take this chance to do, and learn things on ur own..you will find that “alone time” can be really enjoyable too! :)
    u can devote more time in ur career and both of u can work twds a better future!! :D
    jiayou!!! :)


    April 19, 2008 at 12:01 am

  8. I guess love is selfish sometimes. When two promise to be in a relationship, both must know that whatever one half does, the other half would affected. So if you really want him to stay, dont be afraid to ask.

    Though in this case, things seem like they could be better with the savings and earlier marriage plans, would you be able to handle the separation girl? Coz i would be so lost without my boyfriend for that long. hehz

    But i hope you hang in there! =)


    April 19, 2008 at 12:15 am

  9. Think he will be doing great over there, and come back RICH!
    Meanwhile u can learn how to cook curry… especailly Indian Curry…


    April 19, 2008 at 12:28 am

  10. i know. it stinks to be away from your SO for a period of time. heading to US for 4mths later this year too and although im the one who’s heading there – i cant help it but to kinda dread for the day to come cz i know, i would miss him like mad during the absence.

    but yea, think positively. it’s going to be a big career break for him. plus, more money saved up for the future. sacrifice a little now, for the better of the future. :) there’s always msn, video-call, phone calls to keep in touch..


    April 19, 2008 at 12:36 am

  11. can i know where u bought your top and outer suit in the last pic? it is gorgeous!


    April 19, 2008 at 12:39 am

  12. Dun be sad babe, I am sure he will miss u as much as u do when he is there. =D Time will pass very quickly and soon u will realise 6mths is over and ur sweet bf will be kneeling to ask for you hand.. weee!


    April 19, 2008 at 2:42 am

  13. just rape him when he comes back.


    April 19, 2008 at 11:51 am

  14. visit him in india???
    i’d be sad too, if my husband has to be posted away for 6mths. but think long term ok, what is good for him will be better for you :PP
    hang on there my dear…


    April 19, 2008 at 12:15 pm

  15. hey girl… i can totally understand how you feel.. i was away from my bf for 6 months and it did feel strange .. it’s like missing a limb… but i think it’s also good for the relationship. We all learn to grow as individuals..

    which part of india is he going to? i’ve got friends in new delhi… if he needs some company.. male company, so not to worry! =)


    April 19, 2008 at 12:49 pm

  16. ohman, i can feel ur ache girl. but no worries! i bet u and ur dearest miumiu can make it through this test of time! ive always think u guys make such a lovely pair together *so very envious* sooo… hang in there! IMMERSE yourself in work and studies (like you’ve always done) and 6months will be gone real soon! by then it’s e happy wedding bells? hahaha.


    April 19, 2008 at 1:17 pm

  17. my bf is going away to UK for 2 years in july.
    Absence makes the heart grow fonder..
    hang in there.
    cheer up.


    April 19, 2008 at 2:32 pm

  18. Seee, everyone is telling you t gambette!
    ‘cos people always say “Distance makes the heart goes fonder”.
    Take tht time t get close and cosy with your girlfs and family, and in no time your BF is gnna be back:D
    Just rmbr t spend quality time with him now, make sure he’s feeling good abt this too, thus he wouldn’t go so worried thinking if you’re surviving good in sg!

    To the bright future,
    Jiayou jiayou jiayou:DD


    April 19, 2008 at 2:56 pm

  19. when miumiu is not around,
    i can part time for him.

    for others is chargable…

    for you only, it’s FOC and no strings attached!

    no miumiu, got sinsin k?



    April 19, 2008 at 4:32 pm

  20. ask miumiu to set up a blog if he can! then we all can read abt hw hes doing too. anyway, im sure u guys will be doing fine. cheer up and stay strong!!


    April 19, 2008 at 5:03 pm

  21. if you think about it..its your last 6 mths of freedom…after that you are gona be married..FOREVER AND EVER!


    April 19, 2008 at 5:58 pm

  22. don’t be sad girl. 6mths will be soon over. my bf left for 15mths… we survived thru the ldr. u can do it too! jiayou!


    April 19, 2008 at 10:01 pm

  23. i think the best present he can give is an air ticket to visit him :)


    April 20, 2008 at 1:21 am

  24. Don’t be so upset k?? He’ll be upset to see you sad… there is always mobile and computer to keep in contact nowadays… webcam! he can get the prepaid card over there… is cheap and call back to you.. :)

    don’t worry ya.. time passes quickly with your studies and outings.. you got your lovely girlfriends and family members beside you to acc you along for the next 6 mths..

    jiayou!!! =)


    April 20, 2008 at 2:57 am

  25. Thanks guys.
    WAH I think if my boyfriend is gone for like 15 months or 2 years, I’ll really die here.
    I asked him about the flying over to visit him.
    He said he will check with his superior and see if things can be worked out.
    I’d LOVE to visit him there. I just hope that he gets used to the environment there and not fall ill!
    He will get a new lappie and webcam for the trip as well! So I guess we’ll be having video conferences every night!

    And to my dearest Sinsin, NO MIUMIU GOT SIN SIN! :D


    April 20, 2008 at 2:52 pm

  26. Hey gal!
    no worries la… 6 mths very fast one… ur luckier already..
    gif u one real life lagi worst example: my bf went for attachment for a yr!! w/o even comin back once!
    To top it up, he’s on this ship.. wif no reception.. thus can only like call me once a mth!! pathetic rite??
    don worry.. think of my situation then can tahan beta!!
    haha.. u tak care gal!! ;)


    April 20, 2008 at 7:24 pm

  27. Hey babe,
    6 mths’ actually a realtively short period of time if u choose to view in from another angle. Its tough but sme things have to be done aye? Cheer up man! i’m currently sharing the same experience too!


    April 21, 2008 at 9:07 am

  28. time will pass veri fast if u don keep thinking of it.. hoho.. PLUS he will video cam u whenever u wan.. hoho.. and it’s nice to visit ur bf overseas.. e feeling must be great.. TC =)


    April 22, 2008 at 3:01 am

  29. haha, i totally understand how u feel. i’m away in shanghai for gip for half a yr and i miss my bf sooooo much!!! he came over twice alr though. =x
    gambatei u can survive it! go visit him la~ (:

    and i finally disagree with the point of absense makes the heart grow fonder =(

    trust is the key!


    May 27, 2008 at 11:51 am

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