Trust.
It is 3:33am right now & 8:33pm there in UK.
I should be sleeping right now, but i’m not.
Buttons is having a nap over in UK though, at 8:33pm.
What is wrong with us? Haha.
Anyway, I just had a very interesting conversation with my cousin & Michelle online earlier.
As a matter of fact, I’m still feeling intrigued by what was discussed.
Looks like the issues between the sexes will never be ironed out, no matter how long.
The whole little debate started off because of one statement I made – “I generally don’t trust men.”
Honestly, I really have a problem when it comes to trusting people.
Men in particular.
Because I’ve seen too many fucked up men, and heard too many horrifying stories.
Of course, I cannot refute the fact that there are many fucked up women around too.
Growing up & being exposed to the fact that such things actually do happen,
and to know that such people actually exist is such an eye opener for me.
I have seen people two timing.
Heard of horrible stories about how girlfriends realized that their boyfriends have been visiting prostitutes.
Read about men who share their intimate sexual experiences (or photos!) online with strangers.
& I know of attached men who have fuck buddies.
Of course, I have to say again – that all these includes women too.
Inevitably, all these has probably made “TRUST” a harder thing to earn.
We all know that the whole guy-girl thing is based on trust, isn’t it?
Even my Primary 6 cousin can tell me that there is no point maintaining a relationship if there is no trust.
So what is trust?
I posed this question on facebook a couple days ago & someone said,
“Trust is the amber between red and green”
That actually makes a lot of sense to me.
But I know too, that it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it.
So I guess it’s much easier for the amber to flicker to the red side.
Oh well, I’m just ranting.
Nothing to do with Buttons, just in case if you’re wondering.
I miss Buttons & I love him.
And it definitely takes more than random rumours from random jealous bitches to get us down.
(I hope you get the drift)
Goodnight.
Hey hello! May I know how much you bought Maliboo for? She’s so cuute! What breed is her btw?
maliboo is rojak dog – a cross between shih tzu, papillon & silky terrier.
that explains her colors! but her face looks like a shih tzu because her mother is a shih tzu. dad a cross of papillon and silky.
complicated right?
hahaha.
i bought her for $400. from home groomer.
she came to me in really bad shape though, so you really need to check your dogs before bringing them home.
Same boat as you. I generally don’t trust men too. Just need one good man to change that perspective. Hee. And I’m sure your Buttons is one good man. =)
you’re right.
takes one good man and several years to change that perspective.
i hope i got the right one this time. if not i’ll be so jaded.
“And it definitely takes more than random rumours from random jealous bitches to get us down.”
you go girl.
:D
kill those bitches.
I feel that trust is really up to one person’s mind and heart to control it. And trust is a big issue in life as well, may it be friends, family and lovers.
Trust.
Cool darling! Dun let another wrinkle grow on ur face cos of them. Cool baby, cool! :)
yea, trust really take years to build and seconds to destroy it.
i destroyed the trust my ex-bf of seven years had of me by holding another man’s hand.
a week later after our breakup, i’m still waiting for him to forgive me which i doubt so.
only if you’re really sincere.
if you’re REALLY sincere, i’m sure he can feel it too.
but i have to agree it will really take a lot for a man to accept such things.
so, good luck.
if not, then you can only treat it as a painful lesson learnt, girl.
but fight for what you want. you’ve only got one life.
FIGHT!
but really gotta learn from mistakes, i believe in that.
everyone makes mistakes.
dont worry, i help u punch all those bitches :D
YEA PUNCH THE SHIT OUT OF THOSE A-HOLES!
you can’t deny the guys just love bitches at the very Dark side of them………
you may not know.may not agree
just ask Ben
i asked ben and he say he doesn’t.
he says they’re psychotic.
haha yeah guys love PSYCHOTIC girls so much, that’s why they RUN at the sight of them. LOL!
some people are really sick in the head if you ask me! RUN!! hahhahaa
My male frens commented that bitches will never make it to the wife rank in their lifes. Bitches are afterall bitches.
Perphaps bastards love bitches? As both have their dark side of them.
problem is psychotic girls normally don’t realise that they ARE psychotic.
Hi Peggy!
Been reading your blog for awhile. Really happy for you that you’ve found someone you love :) Hope for the best for the both of you! And this may sound weird but I feel that you make a very good friend.. Rock on girl :)
Stay happy!
Cheers,
Your reader :)
yes i make a very good friend. LOL! friend me friend me!
thanks.
buttons and i will do everything to make things work out.
we’re gonna get married in the end! hahaha just see! LOL.
kidding.
but thanks babe.
arhh! PEGGY~ Why did your friends set their blog private? ):
hmm they’re full of secrets. haha. kidding!
their own preference and choic e lah.
respect them. hee.
seriously, how to be sincere? i don’t know.
i just found out from his friend that he made a list of potential girls and planning to go out with them. but he denied it, saying that he has been alone, sorting out thoughts and waiting for me to take actions to woo him.
but until yesterday, i saw him added his ex on his fb. you know, even though i know i’m at fault, i don’t feel guilty anymore.
oh well.
girl, if it’s like that then no point hanging on.
be cool about it and try to accept the fact that he has the right to go out with other people.
try to live with it lor..
I LOVE BENJAMIN LIM YI!